It's a business arrangement. We can become very attached to providers, case managers, service coordinators, direct support personnel, personcal care attendants, etc. It is just important to remember that it is a business arrangement.
They are not our friends although we may all be friendly. They are not our child's/adult's with Autism friends either. Now that I think of it this is important to remember with teachers and educational professionals as well.
It' a business arrangement.